The art of flirting is a dead art. I’m sorry to report that, but most guys simply don’t know how to flirt. In many cases, their definition of flirting is outright verbal assault. They think that they’re joking. They think that they are being flirty and sexy. The only thing that they are actually succeeding at is being downright offensive. They are better of using any kind of top pay porn sites.
You have to remember that for flirting to work, you have to first practice empathy. In other words, you have to step into somebody else’s shoes. You have to allow yourself to look at the world and any kind of situation from their perspective. If you are able to manage this successfully, you increase the likelihood that you will send out the right signals and commit the right kind of actions that they are looking for. This leads to a more favourable outcome.
This is not rocket science. This is not brain surgery. Unfortunately, too many guys are completely clueless regarding this. I really can’t say I blame them. The reality is most people are selfish. This selfishness, unfortunately, is aided and abetted by the entertainment we consume and the greater society that we live in. we live in a society that idolizes convenience and comfort. It’s not surprise then to conclude that most people think that the world revolves around them.
If you have so many self-absorbed people, then it’s really easy to see why the art of flirting, which is an extension of the art of empathy, is pretty much a dead art. Do you see where I’m coming from with this? So, as long as you resolve to try to step into somebody else’s shoes and try to see any situation from their perspective, you increase the likelihood that your flirting will succeed. This is crucial if you want to achieve any kind of success on any adult site.